“I’m a social worker and I work with couples, helping them to resolve conflict in a constructive way. I’ve helped many women deal with cheating husbands, which makes my situation a little embarassing. I’ve become intimate with a married man. He’s a salesman and he is only in town three days a week. He spends the rest of the week at home with his wife. The thing is, I met a wonderful man who isn’t married and I’d much rather be with him. We were just about to be intimate when I told him I was sleeping with this married man. I don’t want to give up either guy, but I know I shouldn’t be cheating. What should I do?” - Gloria, Tallahassee, FL

Gloria,
I think you should drop both men and really look at your values. You help people deal with infidelity, yet you are part of the problem. Since you are part of an adulterous relationship, you’ve probably damaged your chances with the good man. Remember, there are only two guaranteed ways of chasing away a good man: admitting affairs with married men, and talking about your exes all the time.

Take time to figure out what you want. Never sleep with married men and look for someone who has the capacity to make a commitment.

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