“I’m 22 and in college. I’ve been messing around with my roommate and really enjoying it. The sex isn’t quite as good as it was with my boyfriend, but I’m really enjoying being with a woman. The thing is that I want to bring my roommate home for Spring Break. My parents are so religious, I think they would have a heart attack if they knew I was lesbian. Should I just tell them and get it over with?” - Zeena, Skokie, IL

Zeena,
If you are just “trying out” the gay life, you might want to wait before you tell your parents. A few people do try out gay sex in college, they are called BUG or Bisexual Until Graduation. When you are certain you are a lesbian, then you can tell your parents. Don’t upset them if this is just a passing interest. Remember, very few people are truly gay. Many gay people are just hypersexual and will hump anything and anyone. Remember, sexual orientation is inborn to a certain extent, but in some cases it is chosen. Keep things quiet until you know for sure.

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